So in recent months, a situation happened in my sister’s circle. So she found out that one of her closest friends decided to get acquainted with our brother. Now for me, I honestly do not care but hearing my sister speak on it, obviously this affects her in a way. Well, you know my saying, I had to write about it. I sat and spoke to some of my friends on their definition of Girl Code. Let’s just say some of the things we agreed on & others not so much. My definition of Girl Code is:
Girl Code– Some code guidelines that women must take into consideration in their circle in order to stay with their group of friends.
Pretty simple right?………..WRONG!!!!!!!!!! And I am going to tell you why. What are the guidelines? Every group has different ones. So trust me I may or may not have broken some.
Some girl codes may say sleeping with a friends brother is not okay. Have I slept with a close friends brother? Yes, yes I have. Does my friend know this? No, no she doesn’t & she never will know. Lord, I bet all my friends with brothers are wondering, who am I talking about. That my friends don’t even matter the point is you will never know about it. So with a good sound mind and body, my friends and I came up with the GIRL CODE COMMANDMENTS
- IF THOU IS NOT MY FRIEND, THOU SHALL NOT KNOW MY PERSONAL BUSINESS
- THOU SHALL NOT DATE SOMEONE THAT YOUR FRIEND OR FAMILY HAS HAD AFFAIRS WITH
- THOU SHALL CALL YOUR FRIEND OUT WHEN SHE’S WRONG. EVEN IF ITS UPSETS HER
- THOU SHALL NOT BETRAY A FRIENDS TRUST. WHAT I SAY TO YOU MUST REMAIN BETWEEN ME AND YOU
- IF THOU HAS LAIN WITH MY MAN IN THE PAST, THOU HAS AN OBLIGATION TO LET IT BE KNOWN
- THOU SHALL NOT DISCUSS FRIEND WITH THEIR ENEMIES
- IF THOU HAS WENT TO THE CLUB TOGETHER, THOU SHALL LEAVE TOGETHER
- THOU SHALL NEVER LET FRIEND GO TO THE BATHROOM ALONE WHILE PARTYING
- IF THOU GAIN LEGIT INFORMATION, THOU SHALL NEVER TELL WHO YOUR SOURCES ARE
- THOU SHALL ALWAYS WAIT TILL FRIEND IS IN THE HOUSE BEFORE LEAVING. OR IF FRIEND DRIVES MAKE SURE SHE TEXT YOU SHE MADE IT HOME.
- IF FRIEND ASK HOW SHE LOOKS, THOU HAS THE RIGHT, TO TELL THE TRUTH.
- THOUS SHOULD ALWAYS SUPPORT A FRIENDS DREAMS, GOALS AND PLANS ANY WAY YOU CAN
- THOU SHALL NOT LET FRIENDS WALK OUT THE HOUSE WITH CRAP ON HER FACE OR IN HER TEETH
- IF THOU IS NOT FRIENDS ANY MORE, SECRETS SHALL BE TOOK TO THE GRAVE
- IF THOU IS IN A RELATIONSHIP, YOUR BOYFRIEND SHALL NOT KNOW FRIENDS BUSINESS
- THOU SHALL BE ABLE TO TALK TO HER GIRLS WITH NO JUDGEMENT
- THOU SHALL CHECK ON FRIENDS AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK OR TWO.
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY
THOU SHALL NEVER EVER HATE ON HER FRIENDS SUCCESS.
Comment below and tell me what girl codes your group of friends has.